When it comes to attracting men its not all about being sexy or attractive. Alot of men have a hard time meeting women and never do because many women are under the misguided impression that the man must always come up to them. The reality is that this was true in another time known as the industrial age and before. Now to get any man you must take the initiative if they don’t take it themselves. Many men are afraid of women mainly due to their fear of rejection so a many may not seem to be interested but it could very easily be that he’s just too shy to take the first step.